I’ve come to the conclusion that the likelihood of me meeting the type of woman I’m looking for out in a bar is slim to none. Going to bars can definitely be fun, but it’s an extremely inefficient and random way of meeting people. It’s like trying to find a needle in all the haystacks in Dallas…….dark, smoky, loud haystacks. Haha. I decided to be proactive and try this out because I don’t believe in leaving things up to “fate”.
I’m straightforward about my feelings and I don’t play games. When I’m interested in someone, I tell them….and when I’m not, I politely make that clear also. I’m an honest guy and I don’t cheat or lie (by omission or otherwise). When I’m in an exclusive relationship, I am committed to that person and I don’t maintain “backups” or give other women the impression that I’m available. I’m not a player.
I’ll explain more of my personality and values by describing what I’m looking for:
An intelligent, classy woman with a unique personality that compliments my own. And by that I don’t mean that she should constantly tell me I’m wonderful. Hahaha. I’m talking about chemistry. Without it, a relationship will become boring and stale. The type of personality traits that I’m attracted to are: intelligence, confidence, maturity, and honesty. I want someone that is affectionate, uninhibited, outgoing, open-minded, sexy, classy, quick-witted, laid back, and ambitious. I’m not interested in jealous, reserved, pretentious, or conservative types. I’m also not into “high maintenance” women that overreact or that have severe mood swings. Yikes!
Physically, I’m attracted to a woman that keeps in shape and takes care of herself. I work out regularly and I appreciate the effort that goes into having a nice figure.
Congratulations if you made it this far! Haha. If there’s anything else you’d like to know about me, just ask!