Dating Forecast: Will They Be Around For The Next Big Holiday?
Our dauntless dating reporter asks: At what point in a relationship do you start to think about whether or not this person will be around for the next big holiday?
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Shannon, 36, Akron, Ohio
I think if the person and I have a chemistry that is unlike any other feeling we've felt before, then he will be a keeper. It's not just physical attraction; I'm talking about a spiritual connection. It's a good feeling. I've experienced it. It is like "Hmm...he could be the one." Also, if that person is willing to relocate to be with me. That's a big step and commitment to me. And vice versa, if I want to relocate to be with him. I'm really serious if I choose to relocate. |
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Andy, 29, Joliet, Ill.
After the second date, I can get a good feeling of where the relationship is heading. First dates are uncomfortable for both of us. You are not always completely yourself. Usually you get a better feeling about the person on the second date. |
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Sylvia, 37, Kingsville, Texas
When the emails and phone calls stop coming in or out. Ha-ha. |
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Tim, 41, Springtown, Texas
If time is the topic, I usually begin thinking about this during our third month of dating. Then again, if we're having a lot of differences of opinion, I'm thinking whether the person will be around by the next weekend! Ha-ha! |
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Wendy, 35, Lawrence, Kan.
I would say it's different for every relationship. Some people I have never thought about sharing a holiday, but still dated. |
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Michael, 37, Lockport, N.Y.
The first time we meet, as in a recent date with Sarah -- a very good first meeting. |
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Jabu, 33, Seattle, Wash.
I have to admit I start assessing that fairly quickly after I've decided they've got great relationship potential in general. I watch carefully how they interact with my friends and later with the members of my family. If that doesn't go well then he's not the partner for me! |
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Christopher, 32, New York, N.Y.
When I begin to understand how open and loving the person can be and how adventurous their personality and spirit are. |
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Alex, 31, Washington, D.C.
Seems to be a point around the two month mark (while dating) that's the "make-or-break" point in my experience. After that, I start thinking about what might become of it longer-term. |
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Monica, 27, Orlando, Fla.
If we tend to spend lots of time together, maybe thinking of meeting the family......or mainly if he is not some kind of a nut. |
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Paul, 33, Los Angeles, Calif.
Probably after three months or so and once you start to become comfortable and know the other person truly does have a genuine interest in you and not your looks. |
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Josh, 25, North Wales, Pa.
I don't think there is a specific point when you know. It just happens. |
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Francisco, 26, Pontiac, Mich.
Once there is a certain bond, you feel this person is slowly growing on you, on your everyday life, she's something that becomes usual to you and you begin to wonder, "What will I be getting her for Christmas? it's gotta be great!" |
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